Otpusti ocekivanja

The very best thoughtful deed, act of love, gesture of kindness or token of appreciation is the one that is offered up to us when we least expect it. If we want to increase the magic these kinds of unexpected moments bring to our lives, it's quite simple really.

Let go of all expectation.

What is expectation anyway, but a measure of control and judgement we place on others with regard to how they should behave for us or what we think they should do for us. (This is separate from respectful treatment of each other and healthy boundaries). When we drop the control game where we've essentially doomed everyone in our life to ultimately fail us in some way, and simply let people be who they are and choose to come to the table or not, then everyone suddenly becomes free. They are free from obligation, and you are free from disappointment. When everyone is free, then things are allowed to be as they are. This is when we come to fully appreciate every moment for what it is, not what we think it should be. We open ourselves up to fully delight in and fully appreciate every consciously, freely chosen act, and we discover what each one truly is; a magical moment; a miracle of love. - Be The Light