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The Deep Energy of the Male and Female

BY KATHLEEN, ON APRIL 16TH, 2011

There is a deep masculine energy. The passion of a warrior lies within every male.  Men, this warrior is an essential part of you!  First, I need to say that I love the warrior archetype in men.  It makes me feel safe.  I like the feeling of being safe and loved.  I also will say that men have this warrior energy in varying degrees.  Some men come to Earth drenched in it. In others, it is there, but to a lesser degree.  In our world today, deep energy is pushed down within men and women. I believe all parts of our Beings have a purpose.  If it were not so, we would not be in ownership of them.  This inner-most energy needs to be understood for what it is. What gifts can be taken away from it.  Unfortunately, because of fear, we don’t want to see or accept this buried energy.  But, I can promise you, beneath the mask of the over polite female, and behind the disguise of the wimpy modern man, lies the heart of a Goddess and Warrior, begging to come out into the light! I love how David Deida puts it in his book “The Way of the Superior Man”, “Beneath the nice veneer of most women lies the wrathful goddess who would chop the head off of every mediocre “new age” man. And beneath the patient smile of most men lies the warrior of love who would ravish his woman into bliss…”

This energy, this dynamism that brings life to all forms is Love.  Just think about that for a moment…What is this feeling, this wave of energy, and how strong is it, when you think about how much you love your child? Your spouse? Your family? Even your pets?  How would you describe to someone who had not yet experienced love, what it feels like?  How it permeates your very Being.  A warrior knows this kind of love.  He has love for his family, his God, his Nation. His love has the strength of tempered steal.  This I can’t get enough of when I see it in a man.  There is no stronger energy or force in the universe than the love of a good and brave warrior. This energy within the male is so compelling.  To be the true energy of a warrior, it must encompass many strengths.  Love, of course, but also valor, kindness, fear, bravery, intelligence, just to name a few.  Also, a true warrior is in control of his anger. These energies take time to learn and assimilate.  A man lives many life times.  He must, to experience the energy of life, in many different forms.

Each time a man takes an opportunity to gain light and knowledge, he gains experience, and a greater supply of the energy used to grow his warrior essence.  Of course, this is not the only area he gains strength in, but a very, very important and core area. In most little boys that warrior energy will start to show up by the time they are only two years old.  They will love playing sword fights, even if it is just with empty paper towel rolls.  I have sons, and not one of them did I teach to play sword fights, how to pretend their hand is a gun, to love to wrestle, and yet everyone of them took to all of those things right away.  Not only that, but they were heartbroken if not allowed to sleep with their weapon and super heroes. It is ingrained in the male, this warrior essence.  If a man cannot find a way to be a physical warrior with working out, or practicing some type of weapon skill, or sport, he will want to play war games, watch football, or he will use his mouth, or his job as a weapon.

When a man does not experience his warrior energy he may become depressed, overeat, and become a bully.  It is vitally important for men to find a way to connect to that deep essence.  Men, you need to do something physical.  Think of the movie heroes you look up to…I would say most, if not all of these men took care of their physique.  Why?  Men instinctively know that women look to them for protection.  Now granted, some men have not garnered as much warrior energy as others.  There is nothing wrong with that.  That is just where they are in this stage of their Being.  Some men are happy there, and do not want to be any different.  But for those of you who do want to get more in touch with the warrior within, YOU need to work out.  As long as you are healthy, no major physical problems, you should work out until you leave this dimension.  There is a growling, sorry I am having a hard time describing it, deep within the male.  It sits about stomach area.  This is a major access area to your masculine energy.  Take a look at this team, the All Blacks, as they pull on that vital strength within. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3o0pv6k37yE This is just an example of how men pull this energy upward.  I particularly like the looks on the faces of the opposing team:) You can do the same thing lifting kettle bells. (My favorite)  Here is a link for you about Kettle Bells   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6J7fN_w-ZMA You can try to pull up some of this feeling right now.  I want you to tighten your arms and your stomach muscles, bend slightly and give out a growl!  Feel that?  Learn more about it!  Working out is just one way of helping you get in touch with who your really are.

Sisters! As females we have a gift of power to claim.  Accepting this gift may be a challenge, If after all, you don’t know this power even exists.  Women are blessed with a deep well of energy, female essence.  This energy grants us many powers.  But first, we have to acknowledge its existence! Females are sensuous.  We love using our senses. The problem is we sometimes get stuck on just using a few of them.  We need to accept and appreciate that we have curves, and mounds and valleys.  We are female after all; we might as well appreciate it!

Females need to wake up to all the different forms of pleasure brought about by using our Senses.  Pay attention to what you are hearing, smelling, tasting, seeing and touching. This “she-energy” will come out softly when you take a bath, and feel the silkiness of your satiny skin.  Your long hair can bring feelings of sensuality, and softness as it plays with nerves on top of your skin all down your back.  Allow yourself the feelings of appreciation for the sensitivity to stimulus, even so soft as this, which earthly bodies may enjoy. Wear your favorite scents!  Wear them for you, not just for when you go out!  My favorite natural perfume oil right now is by Ramakrishnananda’s gifts. It is called Prema.    http://www.ramakrishnanandastore.com/item.php?ItemID=219   ~Here is my warning for you ladies…this works as an aphrodisiac.  Use sparingly~***  Take a look around your environment… Are you surrounded by what excites all of your senses?  Do you have art work you love?  Do you wear clothes that are soft and flowing with female quintessence? Get in touch with your Sacral Chakra. Pull in the color orange as you feel you chakra spin clockwise, (as if you had a clock on you facing outwards) as you breathe in, feel the chakra spin;  pull in a clear orange color full of light. Our Sacral Chakra has the power to help us tap into the passionate Beings that we are. We have this She energy deep within our belly, which could be described as a long, low moan which needs escape.  This is a very alive energy.  It is helpful in awakening all of our She attributes.

As a woman, I must say that I do not feel like society as a whole, appreciates feminine energy.  It appreciates, for the most part, the part of the woman that is the Mother in us.  I do not feel it’s very comfortable with the energy associated with the sexual being that women are.  I think this is due in part to what the entertainment industry has done with the beautiful energy women have so inherently connected to our whole beings. They have taken something very sacred and beautiful and downgraded it. Debased it. Now to be a sensual and sexual female has taken on a bad connotation.  This is truly a tragedy for women and men alike.  Both are asked, unspoken and spoken at times, to not feel their true natural and normal feelings. God given feelings, mind you that are wonderful blessings to us if used, and understood correctly.

So men, what does a woman want from you?  She wants to feel safe and loved.  It’s pretty simple really.  She also wants you to be as much a male, as she is female.  For instance for me, I have a lot of feminine energy.  I need a man who is very male.  I need a man who knows himself.  I want a man to study how to please a woman in bed.  He needs to take that on himself. He needs to find the right sites online, or the best books with good information.  He needs to know how to take charge and ravish me in bed.  I want to be the ravishie (I think I just made up that word:).  Now by ravish, I am not talking about the definition that means rape. I am talking about the more passive definition that means to give great delight, to enrapture.  I want him to know how to take charge in bed.  Yes, there needs to be communication, but really, I want him to know what he wants, and know how to please me.

Men and women need this wonderful thing, this magnetism, between us.  The more virile the man, the more feminine the female will be, he is attracted too. And vice versa. We need this difference, this factor of opposites to create the amazing energy of attraction! Is this not the law in all of the natural sciences?  This is something we all know instinctively.  We do not have a machine that will be able to read the strength of attraction between a male and a female, as it could measure the strength of the polls of magnets.  Nor can we see this attraction with our naked eye.  This force is more of a feeling energy. 

Let’s look at the difference in body types.  Females flow.  We have roundness, and curves, hills and valleys. Our energy is mellifluous like the movement of water, circling, whirling, and flowing in and around.  Woman are round like the earth, we give life, our energy, like water, will surround and embrace.  The way we move our physical body, again, our movements are more fluid, our hips sway, and our steps are lighter, our turns more delicate, and our hair swirling or cascading softly downward.

Men are more angular.  Their form would best be described as a rectangle or even an inverted triangle.  Healthy men have a strength and purpose to their step.  In fact, if walking with a woman, many times must slow down a bit, so as to walk beside her.  Men like straight lines to follow, to go from point A to B.  Their physical body has a feeling of potency, of density.  It is a wonderful pleasure for me as a woman, to be encompassed, and held safe within a man’s capable and powerful arms.

Just as you can feel the pull of energy, when you hold a negative and positive magnet near each other.  So too, you can feel the attraction between the sexes.  This is what I refer to as  sexual tension.  We need some space, and differences, between the male and female, in order to build this tension.  We need to look as different from one another as possible!  We also need some mystery!  Women, if your man sees all of you, all the time, he gets used to that!  Allow for some mystery and excitement!  Men are very visual Beings.  But, if they see something all the time, well that really lowers  tension big time!  Do not sleep in the buff all the time!  Use that as a wonderful, exciting treat for both of you.  Something out of the ordinary. For goodness sakes, the last thing you want to become for your man is someone he is just used to seeing!  You want to create tension and excitement!  Leave some to the imagination! Be alluring and sensual. Learn how to dance for him, how to massage him, leave him exciting notes to discover what he might be able to enjoy that night~*

“When you are being kissed by a man, who is connected to his warrior archetype, you know,he is fully there. You are his whole universe…Time drops away, as you are drawn into his energy.  A man like that, makes you forget all else, except for the feeling of his strong arms around you, and the excitement of knowing he is sending you on a journey of ecstasy.”

~* Kathleen *~

The more we, as males and females, get in touch with our core energy, the more differences will be apparent.  The more a male will draw on his warrior archetype and the more a female draws energy from her female essence, the more attraction will exist. The more tension builds, the higher the excitement will be, and both will find themselves immersed in a sensual experience that will take them into the dimension of Bliss~~